Prolonged Grief
Support for Prolonged Grief
Grief can affect people in many different ways, and there is no set timetable for how long it should last. For some people, however, the pain of a loss can remain especially intense or feel difficult to move around, even as time passes.
You may feel as though you are stuck in your grief, struggling to adjust to life after the loss, or finding that it continues to affect your relationships, daily life or sense of self.
How Prolonged Grief Can Feel
You may experience:
Intense sadness or longing
Difficulty accepting the loss
Feeling stuck or unable to move forward
Guilt, anger or regret
Avoiding reminders of the person or loss
Feeling overwhelmed by reminders or memories
Difficulty returning to everyday routines
Feeling disconnected from other people
Loss of meaning, identity or direction
Trouble imagining a future without the person
Ongoing distress that feels difficult to manage
There is no “right” way to grieve. People can experience grief very differently depending on the relationship, circumstances of the loss and what else is happening in their lives.
How Therapy May Support You
Therapy can provide a space to talk openly about your loss and the impact it has had on you.
Depending on your experience, therapy may support you to:
Process difficult emotions connected with the loss
Explore guilt, anger, regret or unanswered questions
Understand how grief is affecting different areas of your life
Find ways of staying connected to the person while adapting to life after the loss
Reconnect with relationships, routines and parts of yourself
Make sense of changes in identity or purpose
Develop ways of coping when grief feels particularly intense
Therapy is not about forgetting someone or “moving on.” It can help you find ways of carrying your grief while gradually making space for life around it.

